Not everything is possible. There are things that are simply beyond our reach...things that physically or mentally we will never be able to achieve. Quite simply, we have limitations. No amount of effort will make the impossible possible. There are odds which will never be overcome. The confusing thing about the human condition is that … Continue reading Believing In The Possible
If Not Now Then When?
Change can often be driven by necessity. A particular state of being or a certain state of mind may no longer be in synch with circumstances. It may not be possible to sustain a particular condition of being while maintaining a healthy mental state. But, when faced with the prospect of change, we can falter. … Continue reading If Not Now Then When?
Here, There…Not Everywhere
Healing and hurt are both locked into the passage of time. The longer we live, the more we will experience. The more we experience, the greater will be its impact on the life we are living. We remember the good. We remember the bad. Our ability to recall with clarity can vary. A lot depends … Continue reading Here, There…Not Everywhere
Expectations. Great Or Grate.
Life is such that it makes sense to expect the unexpected...to be aware...to ready ourselves for something we are not necessarily anticipating. The downside, however, is that maintaining that level perception can weigh heavily on our mental resources. And it can tip over the edge into the abyss of fear. Ideally we should be aware … Continue reading Expectations. Great Or Grate.
The Challenge Of Compromise
Compromise is rarely simple. Modifying the way we think and act takes effort. More than that, it demands concession. It's not always possible to get what we believe we deserve let alone what we know we want. The stumbling block we face is concession. In order to get, then we must also be prepared to … Continue reading The Challenge Of Compromise
The Inner Voice Of Choice
We have all been embraced by the cult of conformity. If we are not one thing then we must be another. Individuality is rarely tolerated. There are boxes and there are boundaries and society requires us to take our place within defined parameters whether they be real or imagined. There must be a reason, an … Continue reading The Inner Voice Of Choice
Making Less Of More
There are no limits in a world powered by the cult of more. We are encouraged to acquire without limit...not only to succeed but to exceed. There is always more to be had. Enough is never enough. We are pushed to measure ourselves by the standards set by society, often overlooking the fact that society … Continue reading Making Less Of More
Here, Now Or Then, When.
Our present can be dictated by our past. Our future can be fuelled by our fears. We get to decide the path we will follow. We make our own choices. The then and when are part of our here and now and must be accepted as piece of the journey we are on. We may … Continue reading Here, Now Or Then, When.
The Inevitability Of Change
Change is difficult. Choosing to alter a circumstance, situation or relationship is challenging. The fear of failure looms large. And yet there are many times when we are required to face the inevitability of change. We are required to look beyond what already exists and consider the alternatives. There is always another way to do … Continue reading The Inevitability Of Change
Looking And Leaping
Dissatisfaction is a major catalyst for change. But it can also create a confusion that not only clouds planning but hides reality. It's not possible to plot a successful move forward before fully understanding where we are at this point in time. A change in circumstances based on a whim is a potentially dangerous move. … Continue reading Looking And Leaping